Bad lies, when we go out for the first time with a person to check if we are interested we do not say “wow, to someone with a terrible inner world”. The first impression counts more than (we want to) think. I am not saying that you need to be the Mr. World to find a woman, but it is good to apply some tips and some tips, which will definitely make you white-faced.
Everyone has their own charm, but with a well-groomed appearance this charm is even more obvious. So we present you 5 basic tips to take care of your appearance and win the (first) impressions!
The right balance
Well, gentlemen, let’s start with the fact that you want to look like you have tried for a nice look, but without too much. If your image “shouts” that you have tried too hard, the girl will feel that you are desperate or that you probably have something to hide. So take it easy: e.g. do not blow your nose with a suit, because it will look the least ridiculous. Unless of course you go somewhere where the occasion requires it, but again there are not many such circumstances suitable for a first date…
Avoid the very “elusive” options
On the other hand, let’s not overdo it with relaxation. Do not show up for any reason with t-shirts that strongly show the brand on the top, because this shows shopping or as if you are showing off what you are wearing. Also, do not come with a t-shirt with strange designs or a message on it, no matter how catchy it may seem. This is only justified to pupils / students, and this is not always the case. I also have a blouse with something avocado dancing, but I certainly would not choose it for a first date. Prefer an easy and timeless T-shirt.
Do not neglect your shoes
Many people tend to neglect or ignore this part of their outfit, but remember that we women always look at the shoes and will judge from there if someone really took care of their look or did “what the mother-in-law sees”. Avoid sneakers, unless it is a style that is worn as a more evening, and instead prefer a slightly more formal shoe without overdoing it.
Pay attention to your care
Whatever you wear, it will not show on you if you do not take care of yourself first. Not that we should point it out, but you should take care to bathe, wash your hair and if necessary use conditioner, shave or take care of your beard and have clean, trimmed nails. Appearing careless is more than enough to push every woman to make a irreversible change.
Make sure the style expresses you
Whatever you choose, make sure you wear it instead of you – in other words, wear it comfortably so you can support it. If you choose something that you did not normally wear even with a pistol in the temple, thinking that this way you look more impressive, you are making a big mistake. Your lack of familiarity with clothing will not only stand out but will also make a bad impression, because a woman may think you are “out” and not interested. Take care, with whatever you wear, to be your (best) self!
As you can see, it’s not that difficult, but it’s definitely very important. Anyone who thinks that only women take care of themselves and do their best for their appearance, is deeply nightmarish. You should always look good, out of respect for those around you but especially for yourself.
